umroh april

Jalan beraspal yang kanan kirinya ditumbuhi pohon kelapa akan ditemui bila berjalan ke arah utara melewati ring road barat Yogyakarta. Melaju mengikuti arah jalan itu, anda akan sampai ke sebuah dusun bernama Mlangi, tepatnya di sebuah masjid bernama Jami' Mlangi. Sekeliling masjid itu berupa kompleks pemakaman dengan yang paling terkenal adalah makam Kyai Nur Iman.

Nama Mlangi tak lepas dari sosok Kyai Nur Iman yang sebenarnya adalah kerabat Hamengku Buwono I, bernama asli Pangeran Hangabehi Sandiyo. Kisahnya, Nur Iman yang sudah lama membina pesantren di Jawa Timur diberi hadiah berupa tanah oleh Hamengku Buwono I. Tanah itulah yang kemudian dinamai 'mlangi', dari kata bahasa Jawa 'mulangi' yang berarti mengajar. Dinamai demikian sebab daerah itu kemudian digunakan untuk mengajar agama Islam.

Masjid Jami' Mlangi adalah bangunan paling legendaris di dusun ini karena dibangun pada masa Kyai Nur Iman, sekitar tahun 1760-an. Meski telah mengalami renovasi dan beberapa perubahan, arsitektur aslinya masih dapat dinikmati. Diantaranya adalah gapura masjid dan dinding sekitar masjid yang didesain seperti bangunan di daerah Kraton. Di dalam masjid yang oleh warga sekitar disebut "Masjid Gedhe" itu juga tersimpan sebuah mimbar berwarna putih yang digunakan sejak Kyai Nur Iman mengajar Islam.

Makam Kyai Nur Iman dapat dijangkau dengan melewati jalan di sebelah selatan masjid atau melompati sebuah kolam kecil yang ada di sebelah tempat wudlu. Makam itu terletak di sebuah bangunan seperti rumah dan dikelilingi cungkup dari bahan kayu. Makam itu selalu ramai sepanjang tahun, terutama pada tanggal 15 Suro yang merupakan tanggal wafatnya Kyai Nur Iman dan bulan Ruwah. Hanya pada bulan ramadan saja makam itu agak sepi. Biasanya, para peziarah membaca surat-surat Al-Qur'an dengan duduk di samping atau depan cungkup makam.

Berkeliling ke dusun Mlangi, anda akan menjumpai setidaknya 10 pesantren. Diantaranya, sebelah selatan masjid pesantren As-Salafiyah, sebelah timur Al-Huda, dan sebelah utara Al-Falakiyah. Pesantren As-Salafiyah merupakan yang paling tua, dibangun sejak 5 Juli 1921 oleh K.H. Masduki. Mulanya, As-Salafiyah bukanlah pesantren, hanya komunitas yang belajar agama di sebuah mushola kecil. Komunitas itu lantas berkembang menjadi pesantren karena banyak yang berminat. Meski bangunannya tak begitu besar, pesantren ini memiliki 300-an santri dan menggunakan metode mengajar yang tak kalah maju dengan sekolah umum.

Keakraban penduduk dengan Islam bukan sesuatu yang dibuat-buat. Buktinya dapat dilihat dari cara berpakaian penduduk. Di Mlangi, para lelaki biasa memakai sarung, baju muslim, dan peci meski tidak hendak pergi ke masjid. Sementara hampir semua perempuan di dusun ini mengenakan jilbab di dalam maupun di luar rumah. Pengamalan ajaran Islam seolah menjadi prioritas bagi warga Mlangi. Konon, warga rela menjual harta bendanya agar bisa naik haji.

Meski banyak warga punya kesibukan dalam mendalami agama Islam, tak berarti mereka tidak maju dalam hal duniawi. Dusun Mlangi sejak lama dikenal sebagai salah satu penghasil tekstil terkemuka, hanya jenis produknya saja yang berubah sesuai perkembangan jaman. Pada tahun 1920-an, usaha tenun dan batik cetak marak di kampung ini hingga tahun 1965-an. Usaha itu mulai pudar sejak batik sablon menguasai pasar dan harga kain bahan batik terus meningkat. Akhirnya, hanya tersisa beberapa pengusaha batik, diantaranya Batik Sultan agung yang juga mulai meredup akhir 1980-an. Kini, usaha yang sedang berkembang adalah celana batik, peci, jilbab, net bulutangkis, dan papan karambol.

Setiap Ramadan, dusun ini selalu ramai dengan ritual ibadah yang dijalankan warganya. Mulai dari tadarus, pengajian anak-anak, dan sebagainya. Tak sedikit pula masyarakat dari luar Mlangi yang datang untuk 'wisata' agama, semacam pesantren kilat. Nah, bila anda ingin berkunjung ke Mlangi, inilah saat yang tepat. Sepanjang siang selama bulan Ramadhan, anda juga akan melihat betapa akrab anak-anak bermain petasan.

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Even as a high school student, Dave Goldberg was urging female classmates to speak up. As a young dot-com executive, he had one girlfriend after another, but fell hard for a driven friend named Sheryl Sandberg, pining after her for years. After they wed, Mr. Goldberg pushed her to negotiate hard for high compensation and arranged his schedule so that he could be home with their children when she was traveling for work.

Mr. Goldberg, who died unexpectedly on Friday, was a genial, 47-year-old Silicon Valley entrepreneur who built his latest company, SurveyMonkey, from a modest enterprise to one recently valued by investors at $2 billion. But he was also perhaps the signature male feminist of his era: the first major chief executive in memory to spur his wife to become as successful in business as he was, and an essential figure in “Lean In,” Ms. Sandberg’s blockbuster guide to female achievement.

Over the weekend, even strangers were shocked at his death, both because of his relatively young age and because they knew of him as the living, breathing, car-pooling center of a new philosophy of two-career marriage.

“They were very much the role models for what this next generation wants to grapple with,” said Debora L. Spar, the president of Barnard College. In a 2011 commencement speech there, Ms. Sandberg told the graduates that whom they married would be their most important career decision.

In the play “The Heidi Chronicles,” revived on Broadway this spring, a male character who is the founder of a media company says that “I don’t want to come home to an A-plus,” explaining that his ambitions require him to marry an unthreatening helpmeet. Mr. Goldberg grew up to hold the opposite view, starting with his upbringing in progressive Minneapolis circles where “there was woman power in every aspect of our lives,” Jeffrey Dachis, a childhood friend, said in an interview.

The Goldberg parents read “The Feminine Mystique” together — in fact, Mr. Goldberg’s father introduced it to his wife, according to Ms. Sandberg’s book. In 1976, Paula Goldberg helped found a nonprofit to aid children with disabilities. Her husband, Mel, a law professor who taught at night, made the family breakfast at home.

Later, when Dave Goldberg was in high school and his prom date, Jill Chessen, stayed silent in a politics class, he chastised her afterward. He said, “You need to speak up,” Ms. Chessen recalled in an interview. “They need to hear your voice.”

Years later, when Karin Gilford, an early employee at Launch Media, Mr. Goldberg’s digital music company, became a mother, he knew exactly what to do. He kept giving her challenging assignments, she recalled, but also let her work from home one day a week. After Yahoo acquired Launch, Mr. Goldberg became known for distributing roses to all the women in the office on Valentine’s Day.

Ms. Sandberg, who often describes herself as bossy-in-a-good-way, enchanted him when they became friendly in the mid-1990s. He “was smitten with her,” Ms. Chessen remembered. Ms. Sandberg was dating someone else, but Mr. Goldberg still hung around, even helping her and her then-boyfriend move, recalled Bob Roback, a friend and co-founder of Launch. When they finally married in 2004, friends remember thinking how similar the two were, and that the qualities that might have made Ms. Sandberg intimidating to some men drew Mr. Goldberg to her even more.

Over the next decade, Mr. Goldberg and Ms. Sandberg pioneered new ways of capturing information online, had a son and then a daughter, became immensely wealthy, and hashed out their who-does-what-in-this-marriage issues. Mr. Goldberg’s commute from the Bay Area to Los Angeles became a strain, so he relocated, later joking that he “lost the coin flip” of where they would live. He paid the bills, she planned the birthday parties, and both often left their offices at 5:30 so they could eat dinner with their children before resuming work afterward.

Friends in Silicon Valley say they were careful to conduct their careers separately, politely refusing when outsiders would ask one about the other’s work: Ms. Sandberg’s role building Facebook into an information and advertising powerhouse, and Mr. Goldberg at SurveyMonkey, which made polling faster and cheaper. But privately, their work was intertwined. He often began statements to his team with the phrase “Well, Sheryl said” sharing her business advice. He counseled her, too, starting with her salary negotiations with Mark Zuckerberg.

“I wanted Mark to really feel he stretched to get Sheryl, because she was worth it,” Mr. Goldberg explained in a 2013 “60 Minutes” interview, his Minnesota accent and his smile intact as he offered a rare peek of the intersection of marriage and money at the top of corporate life.

 

 

While his wife grew increasingly outspoken about women’s advancement, Mr. Goldberg quietly advised the men in the office on family and partnership matters, an associate said. Six out of 16 members of SurveyMonkey’s management team are female, an almost unheard-of ratio among Silicon Valley “unicorns,” or companies valued at over $1 billion.

When Mellody Hobson, a friend and finance executive, wrote a chapter of “Lean In” about women of color for the college edition of the book, Mr. Goldberg gave her feedback on the draft, a clue to his deep involvement. He joked with Ms. Hobson that she was too long-winded, like Ms. Sandberg, but aside from that, he said he loved the chapter, she said in an interview.

By then, Mr. Goldberg was a figure of fascination who inspired a “where can I get one of those?” reaction among many of the women who had read the best seller “Lean In.” Some lamented that Ms. Sandberg’s advice hinged too much on marrying a Dave Goldberg, who was humble enough to plan around his wife, attentive enough to worry about which shoes his young daughter would wear, and rich enough to help pay for the help that made the family’s balancing act manageable.

Now that he is gone, and Ms. Sandberg goes from being half of a celebrated partnership to perhaps the business world’s most prominent single mother, the pages of “Lean In” carry a new sting of loss.

“We are never at 50-50 at any given moment — perfect equality is hard to define or sustain — but we allow the pendulum to swing back and forth between us,” she wrote in 2013, adding that they were looking forward to raising teenagers together.

“Fortunately, I have Dave to figure it out with me,” she wrote.

Dave Goldberg Was Lifelong Women’s Advocate

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